First Doctor's Appointment

My first doctor's appointment is this afternoon at 2:50.  I have to admit, I'm really nervous.  An actual doctor's appointment makes this pregnancy seem like more of a reality.  Since I'm not showing or anything, it's hard to believe that there's an actual little somebody in there.  Since I've done three home pregnancy tests, I'm pretty sure there is but...

I think we're going to tell people this weekend.  I was really hoping my grandparents would come for Easter, but Aunt Denise is doing something.  I want to tell them in person, so we'll have to figure out the logistics of that.  I'm hoping mom will have some good ideas.  I'm a bit scared of telling mom & dad.  Things have been a little tense (between them) lately & I'm not sure how they'll react.  Mom's going through some hormonal stuff herself.  And I never thought I'd be pregnant and living with my parents.  I hope they take it well.  Seeing how much mom enjoys having Mason, and how much she's willing to change her schedule for him & Nathan & Rachel is encourageing.  But still, that's a lot different than living with a baby full time.  I'm having visions of a full melt down/you can't live here anymore scenario.  I'm fairly certain they're completely ridiculous, but still.

Last night, mom & dad were working outside on the yard.  I wasn't feeling the best & I'm fairly certian mom was expecting my help.  Luckily, I needed to finish a few things up with the books for dad's business. Didn't get done with those until mom & dad were close to being done.  Turned out to be good timing. 
And now I'm just rambling.

Good News

Holy freaking shit!  I am pregnant.  Not that that should be a huge surprise since I took a pregnancy test on sat (march 31), but I just talked to a nurse at the doctor's office.  I'm 9 weeks along.  NINE!!!!!  Cue complete freak out. 

Zack & I discussed how long we should wait b4 telling people since generally 12 weeks is considered the "safe" date.  I had no idea I was so close to that.  Freakout commencing.
Do you wait for a doctor's appt to confirm before telling people?  I would like to talk to my sisters-in laws to see who they used for a doctor (to make an appt) but if I ask, they know something's up.
Eeks.  I want to talk to someone.